Fr. Stephen Freeman
Ancient faith / Glory 2 God for all things
Orthodox Outlet for Dogmatic Enquiries
Mt. Athos, in popular treatments, is often described as a “male
enclave,” a place where no woman has set foot in a thousand
years (this is not actually true). The exclusion of women from
the Holy Mountain is deeply offensive to some (cf. European
Union) and is imagined as a bastion of machismo in a
cassock. It is therefore strange to discover, when you visit the
Holy Mountain, that the central figure in its life is a woman:
the Mother of God. She is described as the “Abbess of the Holy
Mountain.” It is her icon, Axion Estin, that has the place of
central honor in the course of the year (she is carried from the
Protaton Church to visit the surrounding monasteries on Bright
Monday). Indeed, I believe the Holy Mountain would be a place of
deep distortion were the Theotokos not given such prominence.
There is no wholeness for human beings that is not also a
wholeness of male and female: “It is not good for the man to be
alone.” (Gen. 2:18).
I have seen some recent conversations (and heard presentations
at conferences) that ponder the influx of young men into
Orthodox Churches in America. Spiritual pundits draw various
conclusions about the phenomenon (some even suggesting that
credit should be given to podcasters
and bloggers!).
I give credit to the providence of God that is always at work in
all things drawing all things together into one (Eph. 1:10).
But, of the things that God means to draw together into one, I
take it to be pre-eminent that the union of male and female is
chief among them.
One conversation that I’ve heard has asked the question, “What
do young men need to learn?” It is, unfortunately, only half the
question. We cannot teach men apart from women. If masculinity
is disordered, femininity will be distorted as well. The
destruction of men and women has been a constant by-product of
the sexual revolution of the past century and the present. It
only ever asked half a question and offered answers that
destroyed the very context of our existence. We are a deeply
disordered society – and this at the most fundamental levels.
The sexual revolution was constructed with the dynamics of
criticism. What had gone before had flaws, injustice,
unaddressed oppressions, and foundations in a variety of false
narratives. To point out the flaws and deconstruct the edifice
is easy work. To build something better, something true,
something whole, is hard work, indeed, and it has received
almost no attention. Building a civilization is among the
hardest tasks that human beings ever undertake. Destoying them
can be the work of an evening.
Karl Stern, in his classic work, The Flight from Woman (1965),
spends time discussing the difference between
scientific knowledge and poetic knowledge. There are many ways
to frame this distinction. “Scientific knowledge” describes
knowledge that is “outside” of us: such as objective,
verifiable, experimental results. “Poetic knowledge” (by far the
harder to describe) refers to the knowledge we have from the
“inside.” It is what we know because it is us, or because we
have a participation in its life. Scientific knowledge gives us
an ability to master and control the world around us. It also
gives us a knowledge that is “alien” to us.
…poetic knowledge is acquired by union with and attachment to
the object; scientific knowledge is acquired by distance and
detachment from the object. (p. 74)
Living in a world of machines can be wonderfully abundant but
lonely and isolating. Even when we study other humans, with
scientific knowledge we place them in a category that we loathe:
that of objects.
Poetic knowledge is a reality seeking for a name. Its difficulty
in finding an apropos name is itself indicative of its very
nature. We all have it, we cannot live without it, and we have a
hard time describing it or defending the conclusions that it
presses on our reality.
We want to live in a beautiful world while finding ourselves in
a world designed for profit and manageability. We want empathy
from the people around us, but discover that having to explain
what we mean (much less to actually ask for that quality)
defeats the very purpose of our desire. The machines in our
world will not try harder simply because we are having a bad
day.
I suggest Stern’s book to anyone wanting to explore this
distinction further. Fr. Tom Hopko held it in great regard and
recommended it.
But all of this brings me back to the problem of male and female
in the life of the world and in the life of the Church. Hopko
once opined that issues surrounding male and female would be a
profound source of heresy in this century – one that would mark
our time the way Arianism marked the 4th century. His words were
prescient. I believe that the problem is compounded by the fact
that we are considering something that is largely rooted in
“poetic knowledge.” Though it is certainly the case that there
is a fairly straight-forward biological definition of male and
female (despite the present confusion maintained by some),
stating a biological fact doesn’t even begin to address the
mystery.
We are embodied beings and we cannot experience the world
in a disembodied form. To describe our bodies from the outside
(scientific knowledge) says nothing about what it is like to
actually be that embodied person. This becomes yet more
complex when the reality of who and what we are extends beyond my body
and encompasses the bodies that are around me. For the terms
“male” and “female” have no meaning in and of themselves – they
are relational terms. Thus it is true that men cannot know what
it is to be male without, in some manner, knowing what it is to
be male-in-relation-to-female. The same is true of women. In
perhaps the most tortured passage in all of St. Paul’s writings
he says (profoundly):
… man [is not] independent of woman, nor woman independent of
man, in the Lord. For as woman is from man, even so man also
comes through woman; but all things are from God. (1 Cor. 11:12)
Poetic knowledge comes in a patient act of listening and
reflection. It is often spoken in signs and symbols. In the life
of the Church the story of Adam and Eve are profoundly
intertwined with the story of salvation itself. Male and female
are not just bits of biological necessity – they are sacramental
elements in the wonder of theosis.
Modern Christianity has largely followed the lead of the
culture. We have listened uncritically to the messaging of what
it means to be male and female (largely derived from concepts
grounded in consumerist and modern philosophies) while ignoring
the poetic knowledge of the tradition. Thus, we have a
genderless Jesus saving men and women as though they were
genderless drones (which is pretty much what the world wants –
“worker bees”). Modern theologies treat the mother of God and
the entire drama of Christ’s nativity as nothing more than an
“arrival” story, without any consideration for the full nature
of what is taking place.
Mary’s conception of Christ is first foretold in Genesis: “And
your seed will bruise his head” (Gen. 3:15). The coming of the
Messiah, as prophesied in Isaiah, is specifically told in terms
that engage human sexuality: “A virgin shall conceive and bear a
child” (Is. 7:14). These, and other such references, are not
incidental, but integral to our salvation.
By the same token, our own humanity (how is this not obvious?)
is the story of generations of conceptions and births. We do not
exist as genderless worker bees, but as embodied, engendered
human beings, male and female, and the mystery of who we are
cannot be spoken without uttering that very same mystery.
It is not accident, nor a product of some historical prejudice,
that the priesthood of the Church is borne by men (and only a
very few men, at that). Neither is it an accident that the
Mother of God holds such a central place in the liturgies and
piety of the Church. The poetic reality of our being,
particularly our being as justified, sanctified, deified human
beings, is drawn forth in the poetic imagery and speech of the
Church. It speaks to the heart when the heart can hear it.
What shall we do with young men? What shall we do with young
women? What shall we do with the rest of us as well? We must
sing the Lord’s song, and sing it well, until the generations of
the moment and of the years to come can begin to hear that it is
the song of their true lives. It is God’s love song to us all,
sung in a human key. It is also the key of the Divine, but only
the most silent hearts can hear that.
I have more to say on this, but it will have to wait.